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Greetings all, I could hardly put it more strongly: I have a deep interest in chastity, as well as tease and denial. While I identify as straight, my…

member_23c3691a8a 28 Aug 2026 #1

Greetings all,

I could hardly put it more strongly: I have a deep interest in chastity, as well as tease and denial. While I identify as straight, my sincere wishes go out to everyone on their own unique journeys. Although I frequently masturbate, I want to redirect that energy away from simple self-indulgence so I can improve myself. At the same time, I wish to serve a woman who wants her men to be submissive when it fits and strong at other times.

I have utilized a CB device before to hold back my urges, but finding myself alone with those intense horny sensations while wearing one—without someone there to help me stay firm—I tend to give in eventually.

My life is good; I am successful and handsome, making the vanilla world around me stable and comfortable. However, I know that these inner desires for submission and my compulsive need for self-pleasure as a stress reliever are not quite what I want long-term.

I would love to connect with someone, even if it starts mostly online, perhaps leading to an occasional visit someday. It feels better than having no one at all to share this part of my life with. Appetites are just appetites; we have each earned ours right. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Having no partner for this experience, however, tells a different story entirely. Even if it doesn’t work out as hoped, that’s okay too—life is best when lived and shared.

J