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Greetings everyone. I am a 56-year-old male who is new to living chastely. I recently got my metal cage, which I ordered via eBay from a UK distributor.…

member_1f9ec00f8e 1 Sept 2026 #1

Greetings everyone. I am a 56-year-old male who is new to living chastely. I recently got my metal cage, which I ordered via eBay from a UK distributor. There are some practical questions that have been puzzling me.

First off, when drawing my scrotum through the ring, it feels like the testes remain behind while only the skin goes in, leaving an empty sensation within the ring. Is this normal?

Also, what is the best way to guide a flaccid penis into the cage section? It looks like it doesn’t go all the way in. I managed to close and lock the device, but there appeared to be quite a bit of extra room inside. Does it naturally fill out over time? Lastly, where should you apply Vaseline or other lubricants for best results?

Thank you for your assistance.

member_12273ddeda 5 Sept 2026 #2

Hello marriedandlocked, Based on my experience with the CB series cages, the testicles should definitely pass through that first "A" ring. The method I rely on is to push one testicle through first, perhaps pulling a bit of skin along with it, and then guide the second one in. Regarding the shaft, try applying some lubrication. When inserting my shaft into the cage portion, it sometimes folds up partway inside. A little lube or water helps resolve this, as does finding the right angle for insertion. Best of luck! Slavey