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Hi there! I've been playing around with chastity since 1999, though mostly as a hobby rather than seriously. The main reason was that I didn't own anything…

member_490e734a12 1 Sept 2026 #1

Hi there! I’ve been playing around with chastity since 1999, though mostly as a hobby rather than seriously. The main reason was that I didn’t own anything substantial enough to warrant it. I went through the entire CB2000 lineup and even gave the birdlock a shot, but I could always slip out of them without too much trouble. I figured out how to get relief whenever needed while still locked up.

To me, those devices are basically just toys.

I also never had someone hold my key recently. Somehow, though, I’ve developed a new fixation with chastity and decided to come here specifically to explore metal options. The Tollyboy-style belts don’t really grab me; they seem overly uncomfortable, high-maintenance, and on the expensive side. Leather gear is great for fun but feels impractical for long-term wear.

Right now, I’m most drawn to the Mature Metal collection and other cage-like designs.

No matter which path I choose, I intend to get both a metal device and a keyholder (or someone similar) very soon. I have some ideas about what awaits me, and historically, I haven’t been too picky when making my requests! [[Image: sit2.jpg]](the referenced community page)