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Initially I didn't author this post - it comes from an email list subscription to Sarah Jameson's BCWYWF book. Some of you have issues with her, and she was…

member_dc99e9aa86 1 Sept 2026 #1

Initially I didn’t author this post - it comes from an email list subscription to Sarah Jameson’s BCWYWF book. Some of you have issues with her, and she was banned before my time, but occasionally she shares a lovely insight (and even runs a small poll) ..see below… I’ve discussed this previously, yet the topic is so prevalent that it deserves another mention: which “right” device should a man choose? The answer isn’t straightforward. Every belt and cage varies; they cater not just to different lifestyles but also to distinct anatomies and physiologies. Furthermore, there’s no quick fix besides narrowing down your options and inquiring with others. To narrow the choice down you need to think about:

  • Convenience.
  • Comfort.
  • Security.
  • Safety.
  • Aesthetics. We’ll explore exactly what these mean another day (but if you’re short on time and want a thorough grasp of the subject, I explain them extensively in Be Careful, which is available here). After that step, it’s useful to visit one of the better forums like and ask around. However, even then, you’ll likely need to test several devices before finding the one perfectly suited for you. And if you are truly dedicated to a chastity lifestyle, you will do what is required. Because that distinguishes men from boys (and your Beloved probably desires a man rather than a boy). In His Chastity, Sarah xxx Regards slave phil