Introductions discussion

Greetings everyone! I’m tara. A young TG who’s been kept in chastity since September of 2012 under the care of my wonderful Goddess. The Holytrainer is her pick, and I adore it!

We’ve been together for almost three years now, and She seems increasingly drawn to a D/s dynamic.

She has made it clear that she isn’t fully satisfied sexually by me; Her preference leans heavily toward oral service or having fingers used on Her. Back when we did ‘standard’ sex, giving her an orgasm was rare (my sissystick measures barely 5 inches).

I’ve been working to plant the seed in Her mind that She truly NEEDS a real man for better satisfaction. However, She worries I might go chasing after other partners while she’s around (as if I could possibly satisfy a woman! lol).

What strategies can help me persuade her to seek out well-endowed lovers without worrying that my loyalty will waver?

If it's not really what She desires, let be. It isn't your call to make.

Trust and open communication are the keys for you two. Avoid trying too hard to "convince" her into needing something specific. I held off on finding a man to meet my needs for years... There was one encounter with a play partner that proved enjoyable in those early days, but it took until recently—within the last year—for me to find my 21-year-old fucktoy/lover. Cuckslut and I started our chastity journey about five or six years back... this sort of thing doesn't always happen overnight.;) Best wishes and patience.