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I’ve been in my cage for a full day now. I think the toughest part is finding the strength to stop myself from grabbing the key and letting myself out. As someone new to this, I know there are hurdles ahead of me. My mind keeps going back to how much I want relief, but not being able to get it only makes things more intense.

charger71 - you've got this! Good luck. Maybe hand the key over in an envelope to a friend? Or if you're at work, leave it overnight in your desk drawer so you know for sure you can't reach them!

philfred thanks for the support. I placed the key inside a water bottle and put it in the freezer at home. It will take some time and effort to get to them now.

Day two went by without much drama; I'm getting used to being locked up. The horniness is still there but more manageable. So far, I really enjoy the confinement.

Day three: it's becoming easier with every hour that passes. The only thing reminding me of my state is a slight pressure and the weight of the device on me.

soon you will forget you even have it on.

> muttlyvb said: > soon you will forget you even have it on. > Click to expand... How long does that usually take?

It gets a bit boring for me with self lock. After a while, you just feel the weight and the horniness sort of fades away.

> mslv4u said: > gets kind of boring for me with self lock. After awhile just feel the weight and the horny sort of fades away. > Click to expand... How long have you been locked

After about a week being locked up I barely noticed it unless I bumped into something, moved awkwardly (pinching), or went to the bathroom...

For me personally, I usually forget about it after three or four days.

Day four is in the books, no major events. My balls are a bit achy today, which is to be expected. I spent most of last night with a failed erection but am getting accustomed to being locked up. I do have to watch out at work though because I'm constantly bumping it and feeling reminded of what's hidden away.

By the time Monday comes around at work, you'll forget that they are there.

Updating my progress or regress. Last Saturday after four and a half days of lockup (my first time ever), I thought it was time to let myself out for some cleanup work. After releasing, I found several sensitive tender spots. It didn't feel like ending well if I locked back in immediately. Those tender areas were likely due to my own actions, constantly looking for that release that wasn't going to "cum" result from it. Since then, I've been locking up for shorter durations to toughen things up so to speak. Hopefully, I can get past this setback and return to longer periods under lock and key.

Locked up for about 36 hours now. So far so good. I'm aiming to make it through the whole weekend. Any tips on how to smooth out this lockup period would be greatly appreciated.

Occasionally put a little lotion or good lube on the spots that got sore last time. I found those sore spots came from friction; the device can't move easily against the skin and rubs it raw...

> Caged Wolf said: > occasionally put a little lotion or good lube on the spots that got sore last time. I found that the sore spots were from friction, the device can't move easily against the skin and rubs it raw... > Click to expand... Thanks I appreciate any and all suggestions

Sunday morning and still locked. Woke up this morning feeling basically no different than any other non-locked morning. Looking forward to longer periods between releases as I move forward.

It just takes time for everything to settle in and figuring out how to make it work for you! Glad it seems to be working well for you!

I guess the next logical step would be giving up control of the key. That is a huge move and I'm not sure if I am quite ready for it.

I've locked myself back up after a couple days of rest. The weekend passed without incident. The only times I really noticed the device was during the most obvious moments: bathroom breaks, shower time, and an occasional failed erection. Starting my weekend lockup today to see if I can make it through until Monday. Don't see any issues ahead, but anything can happen. Planning on increasing lockup intervals regularly. Suggestions or advice are welcome.

It's been a while since I posted here. Since my last update, I bought two new devices from eBay; both are metal. I've been locking up rather infrequently recently. This week though I have been locked in trying out the new gear. Not sure which one is my favorite yet. The Holy Trainer, being my first device, has taken a back seat. Unsure whether I'll return to it or not.

Today I got tired of the pinching and the rattle of the lock on the tube so grabbed a screw and lock nut and put that in place of the original lock. What a difference! It is now my new favorite device. The only downside is it makes things slightly more challenging to remove if any problems arise.