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(This is only my second thread started here, so if i am posting in the wrong section, please let me know.) I have a job interview. It is a very important one, and i really really don’t want to mess it up. it is also my first time in chastity during one, as i would normally take a ‘release’ before going so i was a bit more calm. is there any advice anyone can offer to help either (A) Keep calm and natural in the interview? or (B) promote conductance so i don’t blow this.

Until you've really got used to being in the CB it's a common thing to be very self conscious about it. You tend to worry that it's obviously showing and that some random person is going to point at you. The fact is that you're the only one who knows you're wearing it. No one else will notice or care unless you bring it up. That answers the basic question of 'can I go to my meeting/interview and be sure no one will know I'm in chastity?' What it doesn't answer is, will you be able to show your normal self in such a situation knowing you're wearing the CB? I'm sure that people will tell you to wear it no matter what happens. If they're prepared to do that in their own lives, that's their choice and has nothing to do with your situation and no one should be telling you what to do - except your key holder. Your public and business life is just as (or perhaps more) important than your private life. After all, you go to work so you can enjoy your private time at home. The question I would ask is, if you can get beyond the self-consciousness, do you feel that you can perform at the interview as your normal self? The answer to that should tell you what you need to know.

s,Hello merril if you are going for an interview just relax and try to come up with all the questions they will ask you.and be aware of the way you are sitting in a chair make sure that you get a good and comfortable place for your hands. try keep them in one spot because they might ask something that makes you move your hands or change how you sit in the chair. Always keep eye contact, and remember only you will know that you have a chastity belt on anyway if they do see a bit of it they will think you are well hung, that is all. good luck with the job .will you let us know how you got on.....spider

what do they say to stop being nervous? imagine the interviewer is naked. try that or better still imagine he is wearing a chastity belt as well, should put you at ease at least!. good luck

It's perfectly understandable that you'll be nervous and thinking about your CB before the Interview. Take it from me, once the Interview starts you will relax, lose your nerves, forget that you are locked and hopefully pass your Interview. Best of luck

Thank you for all the advise and helping build my confidence. I'll be prepping now (wash, shave, nail trim, all things a good boy should do) but will have chat up until it's time to go. i will post how the interview went, as well as the end result as soon as i know.

> Merril said: > (This is only my second thread started here, so if i am posting in the wrong section, please let me know.) > I have a job interview. It is a very important one, and i really really don't want to mess it up. it is also my first time in chastity during one, as i would normally take a 'release' before going so i was a bit more calm. is there any advice anyone can offer to help either (A) Keep calm and natural in the interview? or (B) promote conductance so i don't blow this. > Click to expand... so what is the different? i am always in my belt, holidays,shopping, at work, you name it! reg. GWENY

> gweny said: > so what is the different? i am always in my belt, holidays,shopping, at work, you name it! reg. GWENY > Click to expand... well... the long and short of it.... i am new to the whole chastity thing in public. it was normally an at home, in private thing. i gues in my case...this is a first for me, and i guess i am a bit self conscious about it. my KH is at work as well, and i would feel like a failure if i went to him and ask to be unlocked for the interview.

dont worry,you will get use to it! as always locked! reg. GWENY

I don't see any problem with that. I interview people while wearing my JB all the time:)

i felt as if the interview went well. the interviewing manager had a few things in common and has set me up for a third interview for a position that was higher then the one i applied for. so...i would chock this on up to a win overall. Thank you for all the support.

Great news! I soooo happy it went well! I'll Keep my fingers crossed for you.

Me too. it seems like a nice job. and they are setting me up for a phone interview (3rd interview). so i am more then ready to get the ball rolling.

well maybe the "balls rolling" is a bit optomistic seeing as you are locked at present! lol:)

Glad it went well, I've been wearing a cage on and off (more on than off!!) as well as lingerie for the last few years. At the beginning I was nervous that people would notice but the reality is they don't and staring at the candidates groin is normally not something an interviewer would do anyway!:) I suppose the fact that Mistress has also ensured that I haven't used a urinal in over two years and have been wearing clear nail varnish, sheer tights/stockings and clear mascara for the last year, with no-one commenting - even my closest friends - should show just how little people notice unless you really want them to.

3rd interview today ^-^ luckily it is a phone interview. so no real worries there. only that i can't see what they are writing down about me.

it probably said "dont give the perv the job"! only joking mate lol:);)