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I was at the store and spotted the BON4 kit, complete with its components—four rings plus two tubes—or there was also the 6k option. Since this is my first…

member_fceba4096f 2 Sept 2026 #1

I was at the store and spotted the BON4 kit, complete with its components—four rings plus two tubes—or there was also the 6k option. Since this is my first time using one device, and I’ve come to believe (after reading for years) that more will likely follow in due course, silicone felt like the right choice. It reduces pinching and offers plenty of room for experimentation with all those parts.

I feel like I’ve basically rediscovered the core concept behind trapped-ball devices. Using the two smallest rings—44mm and 40mm—I find the 44 comfortable enough to wear, yet still removable if needed. The 40mm ring feels secure once assembled; it seems nearly impossible to pull out (I was careful not to force it), but comfort is lacking. There’s a persistent feeling that something is off, which doesn’t vanish right away.

This leads me to agree with others who have noted over the years that “trapped balls” isn’t necessarily the most secure design method unless you take extra steps.

Then there’s the matter of urination, which many don’t seem to mind much. You can pee while wearing it without needing a Q-tip for cleanup. It works fine, but for 24/7 wear, I’d prefer not dealing with it as often.

Currently, I’m using it at night to help keep me “out of trouble” (though apparently into other kinds!). Last night, I tried the longer tube instead of the shorter one, which fits tighter. Another interesting discovery: erections can progress further within the longer tube because they don’t get stuck as quickly as in the short one. Once it reaches its limit and starts pulling back, the sensation becomes quite painful! Some might manage to slip out at that moment by adjusting the tube, but I just had to breathe deeply and try to “calm down.”

It’s a promising beginning, with plenty more potential ahead…

member_fceba4096f 6 Sept 2026 #2

I also want to mention that this device stays on without needing a lock. Since I'm currently using it in sort of a "self-bondage" mode right now, it's very convenient...

member_dc99e9aa86 8 Sept 2026 #3

beebop I found this device worked well for both the toilet and extended wear, even overnight. If you have an original BON4 made of silicone, they are among the most comfortable devices I've ever worn—I’ve used several before. They were so comfy that overnight use wasn't an issue at all. My advice: don’t overdo it with lubricant. Do this, and everything will stay in place! Good Luck