Chastity and orgasm denial discussion
Mistress prefers to keep her slave occupied and attentive, so she assigns me plenty of tasks. Some are repetitive or daily duties like brewing coffee and…
Mistress prefers to keep her slave occupied and attentive, so she assigns me plenty of tasks. Some are repetitive or daily duties like brewing coffee and tidying the bedroom. I started this thread hoping other Dominants can get inspiration from it and perhaps share their own ideas; slaves are certainly welcome to chime in with their experiences as well. Daily assignments:
- Tidy the bedroom and make the bed each morning
- Brew coffee every day
- Cuddle Mistress at bedtime
- Maintain a diary. We have our own private forum set up just for us. She posts new tasks, and I report back there. I also use it to share my feelings and concerns—and luckily, there is a calendar where I log when I’ve had an orgasm, removed the cage for cleaning, etc. It’s really helpful if you’re in a relationship where both partners are busy with daily life and find it hard to discuss things while going about your day.
- Paint Mistress’s toenails when she asks. Special tasks: Sextoys: Purchase sex toys for Mistress as requested. In our case, I was allowed to order online, but sometimes a Dom might make the slave go out to a store to buy them in person. Profile text: Mistress has mentioned wanting to find a Bull for real cock play or perhaps a D/s couple could have a four-way. For this purpose, she wanted a profile on some Danish sites; she needed a bio and gave me specific keywords which I used to write the full text. It was quite a challenging assignment and very humbling. Slave contract: To formalize our dynamic, Mistress drafted a slave contract that we follow. She told me to print it at work, find an attractive frame, and hang it on the wall. As an extra touch, I had to pick out an image that looks “nice” in our bedroom so we can swap the picture when we have vanilla guests over. [[Image: IMG_3988.JPG]](the referenced community page) [[Image: IMG_3990.JPG]](the referenced community page) Toychest: Previously, all our toys were scattered across various drawers and boxes. Honestly, it was annoying trying to find what we needed, so Mistress decided I had to organize them in a way that made things easy to locate. What I did was build a chest for the collection—it turned out to be a fairly large project, which is why I created another thread dedicated just to this one. You can see the thread here: the referenced community page Bondage wall: My Mistress wanted to be able to tie me while standing up. It had to be secure yet easy to unhook when we aren’t playing. This ended up being what I settled on. [[Image: IMG_4004.JPG]](the referenced community page) [[Image: IMG_4007.JPG]](the referenced community page) [[Image: IMAG1175.jpg]](the referenced community page) [[Image: IMAG1174.jpg]](the referenced community page) Inspiration tasks: Although my Mistress loves reading the internet, sometimes she finds it easier to have her slave do it for her. So she picks a topic (like ruined orgasms) and has me write an essay on the subject, covering all angles including links to interesting sites.
Miss Mira's bitch You've done a wonderful job here. I'm sure Mistress Suzan is going to enjoy this and will want me to follow your lead. Her original contract for me when she took control of our marriage runs three or four pages and was witnessed by her lawyer, best girlfriend/lover, her (now "our") gynecologist, and her (now "our") orthodontist. I'm sure she is going to give me the task of doing what you have done for your Mistress. Your good deeds will likely result in many of us being told to follow suit!!! Dickieinbraces