Chastity device discussions and reviews discussion

Hello everyone! I’ve been hunting for a new device for my husband because I really dislike the idea of him going around without one, especially since he works in an industry where women make up 95% of the staff. I gave the CB3000 a try; it was decent enough, but he could manage to slip out of it. The mini Birdlocked was another option, though putting it on him was quite a struggle, and one night while we were sleeping, he just popped right out:(

I suspect a full belt is the solution, but I don’t love the cold steel pressing against my bottom when we spoon.

I’ve spotted these on eBay and was wondering if anyone has purchased one?

It looks like it’s essentially copying the CB6000 design, but made of silicone? I thought this might provide a better grip, making pull-outs more difficult, and certainly reinsertion would be much harder with all that entails. Plus, the silicone feels warmer against me and won’t clash with his strap-on so he doesn’t bump into metal.

It’s very affordable, though shipping takes forever. Any thoughts?

If it is indeed silicone, it should be more flexible than hard plastic or metal. In theory, this would make both pulling out and putting it back in easier.

Hello! In my humble opinion, I believe the biggest challenge for all trapped ball chastity devices is their security. The penis is quite flexible; in most cases, you can simply press down on its base or lean back and—voila!—slip your cock out from behind! When that flexible shaft meets an inflexible base ring, it seems to me that flexibility usually wins. Of course, I agree there are people who achieve security with a trapped ball device through specific base ring setups. So if anyone in that situation is reading this, please share some advice (I'd love to hear from you too, as I've never felt truly secure in ANY chastity device without using my piercing!!) Speaking of piercings: personally, I believe security can be significantly improved by one, anchoring the device directly to the cock. This would make pull-out almost impossible. I use a chain through the captive bead ring of my Prince Albert (PA) piercing. I do this because my wife enjoys the sensation during sex, so I keep the ring in place. Another option is using a device that anchors directly through the piercing site—meaning no jewelry is worn; instead, the hole itself becomes the locking mechanism for the penis. Also, any chastity device can technically be removed. A lock can be picked or cut. Chains can be opened or snipped. Rings and cages can even be cut if they are metal! I think most people use chastity as a game or a lifestyle choice. If a man WANTS to wear it, why would he try so hard to get out? In many ways, this desire is the ULTIMATE security. If the man breaks free, the game ends. If he really wanted to be chaste, the worst thing that can happen is his keyholder/partner simply stops playing... So this approach keeps a man in chastity as long as both partners want it. As for locking a man WITHOUT his consent...... I'm not sure that would ever work well. This scenario involves a man trying anything to defeat his device because he doesn't *want* to be wearing it from the start!!!! How do you feel this will work with your husband....? Does he WANT to remain chaste around these women? If so, then pull-out might not even be an issue if HE is willing to play the game..... If you are 'forcing' this on him in some way, I'm less sure about its success... I apologize in advance if I've misread your situation... I hope it hasn't offended anyone! It certainly was NOT my intention! Good luck! With my absolute kindest regards. J

Hi Jodhpurgirl, just a quick correction: as someone who wears a steel fetish Felix full belt, I have to say that when the sub is wearing it, you'll find it remarkably warm to the touch. The body heat gets absorbed by the metal, and for sure, there's no sudden shock of icy cold steel when spooning or doing similar activities.:)

Thanks for the replies!:) OK, my first post might not have been entirely clear—apologies! My husband works in a very traditional industry that happens to be staffed mostly by women—typically lots of young college graduates wearing fashionable clothes. I know he would never stray, but he admits that being surrounded by girls all day does occasionally turn him on. I want that arousal met with the grip of his CD as a reminder of me. He loves it and tells me repeatedly that his life goal is to make me happy; his biggest turn-on is for me to orgasm repeatedly while he feels nothing. This usually happens through bondage or when using a strap-on (with him wearing it), numbing cream, etc., and so on. He says he feels like he's drunk 20 espressos when he's horny as hell and just wants to please me. He has suggested getting pierced before, and we may well go that route. I was looking for something quick and easy to put him in when he goes off to work—or my favorite option—when we go out together. I love dressing up and acting provocatively while we're together; I know exactly what to wear/do to push his buttons:) Since it's cheap, I might get one anyway just to play with. He is uncut, and I am curious about getting a PA piercing while the foreskin remains in place?

I see it says specifically that it is silicone, but I seriously doubt its actually made of silicone. It's more likely polycarbonate, which the listing claims it isn't—just like the original CB*000 models and all their clones. Silicone is flexible; used in a design like this, it would offer little security at all because it relies on the rigidity of the base ring against the tube/cage. If they are both flexible, they will just bend out of the way. I may be wrong if they have developed some special inflexible blend of silicone, but then what exactly do we gain over the polycarbonate versions? For a full belt without that cold steel feeling, take a look at The Lovejail -